tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post8192719114146825418..comments2024-03-22T15:51:18.453-04:00Comments on 8th Day: And then September comes8thdayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17139355263412766126noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-40065486896681211552014-10-07T13:45:26.413-04:002014-10-07T13:45:26.413-04:00Thank you for all your good thoughts and kind word...Thank you for all your good thoughts and kind words. I hope to be writing more about grief and forgiveness and healing. You have all been a part of that journey for which I will be forever grateful. <br /><br />Much love.8thdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17139355263412766126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-50982696441174085532014-10-06T00:34:41.121-04:002014-10-06T00:34:41.121-04:00I am sorry I didn't see this until now. I just...I am sorry I didn't see this until now. I just want you to know I'm thinking of you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-3187216366696351122014-10-04T21:34:44.518-04:002014-10-04T21:34:44.518-04:00thinking of you, my friend.
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kjthinking of you, my friend. <br /><br />love<br />kjkjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15122196887043345981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-49158544970912004702014-10-04T03:00:43.943-04:002014-10-04T03:00:43.943-04:00What about writing a letter of atonement to yourse...What about writing a letter of atonement to yourself... asking for forgiveness for being hard on yourself? for judging yourself? for asking more of yourself than you were capable of giving? for being impatient with your process? It seems to me... and I'm sure it seems so to all your readers... that your heart is large and aims to love and live.... how wonderful this is! and how hard itTree Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07982787927704665380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-12751604117795129422014-09-25T01:21:04.988-04:002014-09-25T01:21:04.988-04:00if you had a role in dephne's death, it is bec...if you had a role in dephne's death, it is because you had a role in her life; maybe bookends. this was not your fault and you cannot be forgiven for something you have no cause to be forgiven for. not that i don't understand how hard this was and is and may always be, but 8, you are a good person. what you write here just confirms that you are authentic and honest. you are a good personkjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15122196887043345981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-52906650751219132192014-09-22T17:07:10.894-04:002014-09-22T17:07:10.894-04:00Oh, 8. You are not alone. You are loved and cher...Oh, 8. You are not alone. You are loved and cherished. You are not unforgivable. You are beautifully imperfect, as are we all. Yes, let the funk work it's way through; yes, sit with it, cry with it, feel it and then let it recede. <br />You are two thirds of the way through the month - remember that when you feel bleak and forlorn. I wish I could be there to hold your hand. Please ehttp://plufrompdx.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-69878798869526682152014-09-22T11:46:02.708-04:002014-09-22T11:46:02.708-04:00I rather admire your awareness of the depth and so...I rather admire your awareness of the depth and source of your sadness and to give yourself permission to let it wash over you like a wave. And it will. <br /><br />I agree with Secret Agent Woman's comment that some people do not know how to forgive and therefore retreat rather than deal with a conflict head on. I am sending you an article via email about forgiveness I hope you find Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00878879338335090175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-34723838768294652032014-09-22T08:33:14.520-04:002014-09-22T08:33:14.520-04:00I can imagine that is such a hard place to be - I ...I can imagine that is such a hard place to be - I hope you find the strength and love you need to move on and to deal with it all the best you can. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-81203594577409139062014-09-21T20:48:19.182-04:002014-09-21T20:48:19.182-04:00Oh, I"m so sorry. You are not unforgivable, ...Oh, I"m so sorry. You are not unforgivable, just dealing with someone who isn't able to forgive.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-16128556087052623692014-09-21T13:57:04.483-04:002014-09-21T13:57:04.483-04:00Love and light as you sit - sometimes that's a...Love and light as you sit - sometimes that's all one needs to do in order for the darkness to pass. I hope it passes quickly this year and you can find some measure of forgiveness for yourself. That's the line that made me cry as I was reading, since I KNOW, as clearly as I know that my own children are goodness and light and so are yours, that that's not true. I wish you could Kalisis Risinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15686870157795479351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1931021721708713850.post-19309023444828585902014-09-21T11:22:41.177-04:002014-09-21T11:22:41.177-04:00My thoughts are with you. My thoughts are with you. Middle Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12334580430376973159noreply@blogger.com