Sunday, October 18, 2015

They broke up!


First, thank you for all the advice on the last post.  It was some very useful advice and I will it use no matter what the future holds for my daughters.

Meanwhile, Beaner and the BF flew to Indianapolis Wednesday for a wedding in his family.  But she discovered he was texting another girl there about getting together and then worse, lying about it.  Much drama ensued at his family home shortly before the wedding and Beaner called to say she wanted to come home.  So we made arrangements for her,and BF’s mother, sobbing, said she would get her to the airport, and then we had to drive 3 hours to pick her up at the closest airport we could get her to on such short notice.   It’s been quite the weekend.

The story actually gets much more bizarre and she has gone from hurt to anger.  Four of her college roommates have called to say they are coming this weekend to be with her.  And we will sit her her until she heals a little.  

But Martha and I are secretly doing a happy dance.  And I think Beaner will be too.  Eventually.

Thanks again for all your help.

12 comments:

  1. It's better to find out now rather than later. Still hurts like hell though.

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  2. I read a lot but don't usually comment, but I gotta say I'm glad it happened now, as Lilly says, rather than later. Phew!

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    1. It is so nice to see you here! We had snow flurries yesterday and it made me think of you and your enviable weather. Hope you are well.

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  3. My daughter has been through this kind of thing a time or three, thankful to have healing buddies.

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  4. My daughter has been through this kind of thing a time or three, thankful to have healing buddies.

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  5. Sorry for the dupe. That's what I get for responding from the mobile device before fully awake.

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    1. Well, it was worth repeating : )

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  6. I know she is hurting now - but I am sure her buddies were able to ease some of her hurt. It is so hard when you can see things from outside the window...

    Happy Anniversary to you and Martha!!!

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  7. You are a MASTER manifestor in some regards, my friend. Haha. I'm sorry for Beaner's broken heart, but seems this is all for the best and she has plenty of support around her to get her through this.

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  8. Wow! From your fingertips to the goddess's ears! This is the best news ever! He has been a dud from day one. You and Martha must be so relieved.

    I'm sorry that Beaner is heartbroken, but we all know that she will get over it. As all of these wise women have said, better now than later.

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