First, thank you for all the advice on the last post. It was some very useful advice and I will it use no matter what the future holds for my daughters.
Meanwhile, Beaner and the BF flew to Indianapolis Wednesday for a wedding in his family. But she discovered he was texting another girl there about getting together and then worse, lying about it. Much drama ensued at his family home shortly before the wedding and Beaner called to say she wanted to come home. So we made arrangements for her,and BF’s mother, sobbing, said she would get her to the airport, and then we had to drive 3 hours to pick her up at the closest airport we could get her to on such short notice. It’s been quite the weekend.
The story actually gets much more bizarre and she has gone from hurt to anger. Four of her college roommates have called to say they are coming this weekend to be with her. And we will sit her her until she heals a little.
But Martha and I are secretly doing a happy dance. And I think Beaner will be too. Eventually.
Thanks again for all your help.